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第三十一天

　

Love Dare - Day 31　

Commit to God and your spouse to make your marriage the top priority over every other human relationship.　

向上帝和配偶承诺，婚姻是你所有人际关系中的首选项，最为优先项.　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Gen 2:24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.　

创世纪2:24 因此、人要离开父母、与妻子连合、二人成为一体。 　

　

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第三十二天

　

Love Dare - Day 32　

If at all possible, try to initiate sex with your spouse today(in a way that honors them).　

今天，如果可能，主动献殷勤，向配偶提供尊重体贴的贴身服务。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Co 7:3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.　

歌林多前书 7:3 丈夫当用合宜之分待妻子、妻子待丈夫也要如此。　

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第三十三天

　

Love Dare - Day 33　

Tell your spouse that you desire to include them in your upcoming decisions, and that you need their perspective and counsel.　

告诉配偶你很想让之参与以后所有事情的决策过程，你需要配偶的观感和劝告。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Ecc 4:11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?　

传道书 4:11 再者、二人同睡、就都暖和，一人独睡、怎能暖和呢？　

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第三十四天

　

Love Dare - Day 34　

Verbally commend your spouse about a recent time when they demonstrated Christian character in a noticeable way.　

口头赞扬配偶，有关最近在他/她身上明显观察到的基督徒的品格。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Co 13:6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.　

歌林多前书 13:6 (爱) 不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理。　

　

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第三十五天

　

Love Dare - Day 35　

Find a Christian marriage mentor. Ask God to direct your decisions and discernment.　

找一位基督徒婚姻辅导员。祈求上帝来指导你们的决定，帮助你们分辩是非。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Pro 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.　

箴言15:22 不先商议、所谋无效，谋士众多、所谋乃成。　

　

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第三十六天

　

Love Dare - Day 36　

Commit to reading the bible every day. If your spouse is open to it, see if they will commit to reading with you.　

决心每天阅读圣经。如果你的配偶愿意，看看是否两人可以共同阅读。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Psa 119:105 Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path.　

诗篇 119:105 你的话是我脚前的灯、是我路上的光。　

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第三十七天

　

Love Dare - Day 37　

Ask your spouse if you can begin praying together.　

询问你的配偶是否两人可以开始一同祷告。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Mat 18:19 “Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.　

马太福音 18:19 我又告诉你们、若是你们中间有两个人在地上、同心合意的求甚么事、我在天上的父、必为他们成全。　

　

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第三十八天

　

Love Dare - Day 38　

Ask yourself what your spouse would want if it was obtainable, then map out a plan for meeting some (if not all) of their desires.　

问问自己，什么东西是你的配偶渴望得到的，同时又是你能够给予的？然后，制订出可行计划来满足配偶的其中一些(如果不是全部)的愿望。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Psa 37:4 Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.　

诗篇37:4 又要以耶和华为乐，他就将你心里所求的赐给你。　

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第三十九天

　

Love Dare - Day 39　

Spend time in personal prayer, then write a letter of commitment and resolve to your spouse. Leave it in a place where you mate will find it.　

花点时间为自己的事祷告，然后给配偶写一封信，表达你对婚姻的承诺和决心。把信放在配偶肯定不会错过的地方。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Co 13:8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.　

歌林多前书 13:8 爱是永不止息。先知讲道之能、终必归于无有，说方言之能、终必停止、知识也终必归于无有。　

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第四十天

　

Love Dare - Day 40　

Write out a renewal of your vows and place them in your home.　

写出你们结婚誓言的续篇，放于家中，刻在心里。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Rut 1:16 But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.　

路得记 1:16　

路得说、不要催我回去不跟随你、你往那里去、我也往那里去, 你在哪里住宿、我也在那里住宿, 你的国就是我的国、你的神就是我的神。