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第二十一天

　

Love Dare - Day 21　

Make time to pray and read your bible today.　

今天，挤出时间向上帝祷告，并阅读圣经。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Isa 58:11 The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.　

以赛 亚 书 58:11 耶和华也必时常引导你、在干旱之地使你心满意足、骨头强壮，你必像浇灌的园子、又像水流不绝的泉源。　

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挑战第四周
　

　　

第二十二天

　

Love Dare - Day 22　

Choose to be committed to love even if your spouse has lost most of their interest in receiving it.　

　

选择矢志不渝地忠于执守你对配偶的爱情，纵然对方已经对此意兴阑珊。　

** 相关圣经启示　

Hos 2:20 I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the LORD.　

何西阿书2:20。也以诚实聘你归我、你就必认识我耶和华. 　

　

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第二十三天

　

Love Dare - Day 23　

Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, stealing your affections and turning your heart away from your spouse.　

除去所有的”第三者”，这些东西有损健康的夫妻关系，偷窃你对配偶的爱情，夺走你对配偶的爱心。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Co 13:5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.　

歌林多前书13:5 不作害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶。 　

　

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第二十四天

　

Love Dare - Day 24　

Identify every object of lust in your life and remove it.　

找出你生命中每一项不良嗜好，并将之抛弃。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Jo 2:17 The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.　

约翰一书 2:17 这世界、和其上的情欲、都要过去，惟独遵行神旨意的、是永远常存　

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第二十五天

　

Love Dare - Day 25　

If there is anything you haven’t forgiven in your spouse, forgive it today.　

如果还有任何事情你还不曾原谅你的配偶，请在今天原谅他/她。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

2Co 2:10 If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven–if there was anything to forgive–I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake,　

歌林多后书 2:10 你们赦免谁、我也赦免谁、我若有所赦免的、是在基督面前为你们赦免的。

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第二十六天

　

Love Dare - Day 26　

Ask for God’s forgiveness for your areas of wrongdoing, then humble yourself enough to admit them to your spouse.　

祈求上帝原谅你所做过的错事，然后诚恳谦卑地向你的配偶承认错误。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Rom 2:1 You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.　

罗马书2:1 你这论断人的、无论你是谁、也无可推诿、你在甚么事上论断人、就在甚么事上定自己的罪，因你这论断人的、自己所行却和别人一样。 　

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第二十七天

　

Love Dare - Day 27　

Think of one area where your spouse has told you you’re expecting too much, and tell them you’re sorry for being so hard on them about it.　

想一想，你的配偶曾告诉你，你对他期望值太高之处。请在今天为之道歉，对不起，在此事上难为了配偶。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Psa 25:20 Guard my life and rescue me; let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in you.　

诗篇 25:20 求你保护我的性命、搭救我、使我不至羞愧、因为我投靠你。　

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第二十八天

　

Love Dare - Day 28　

Purpose to do what you can to meet the greatest need in your spouse’s life right now.　

今天，倾心倾力，尽己所能来令你配偶人生中最大的愿望得以实现。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Jo 3:16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.　

约翰一书3:16 主为我们舍命、我们从此就知道何为爱，我们也当为弟兄舍命。　

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挑战第五周
　

　　

第二十九天

　

Love Dare - Day 29　

Before you see your spouse again today, pray for them by name and for their needs.　

今天，在再见到配偶之前，专门为他们的需要祈祷。　

　

** 相关圣经启示 　

Eph 6:7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men.　

以弗所书6:7 甘心事奉、好像服事主、不像服事人。　

　

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第三十天

　

Love Dare - Day 30　

Ask the Lord to reveal anything in your own heart that is threatening oneness with your spouse and, if appropriate, discuss it openly and seek God for unity.　

　

祈求上帝向你揭示你内心隐藏的有碍夫妻同心的意念，如果可行，和配偶共商，向上帝寻求同一的心。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Joh 17:11 I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name–the name you gave me–so that they may be one as we are one.　

约翰福音 17:11 从今以后、我不在世上、他们却在世上、我往你那里去。圣父阿、求你因你所赐给我的名保守他们、叫他们合而为一像我们一样。