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第十一天

　

Love Dare - Day 11　

What need does your spouse have that you could meet today?　

你的配偶有什么需求正好是你今天可以满足他/她的？　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Eph 5:28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.　

以弗所书5:28 丈夫也当照样爱妻子、如同爱自己的身子。爱妻子、便是爱自己了。　

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第十二天

　

Love Dare - Day 12　

Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and your spouse.　

为了展示爱情，在你和配偶意见分歧的一个方面，心甘情愿地选择妥协和让步。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Php 2:4-5 Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. and I will suggest you to continue: Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.　

腓利比书 2:4-5各人不要单顾自己的事、也要顾别人的事。你们当以基督耶稣的心为心。　

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第十三天

　

Love Dare - Day 13　

Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement and resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.　

和配偶协商，共同规划健康友好的条约来解决分歧，在以后的意见不合的时候，努力遵守并执行此条约。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Mar 3:25 If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.　

马可福音3:25 若一家自相分争、那家就站立不住。　

　

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第十四天

　

Love Dare - Day 14　

Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend quality time with your spouse.　

为了和配偶有更多高质量的相处时间，有意放弃一项你自己通常会做的活动。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Ecc 9:9 Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun- all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.　

传道书 9:9 在你一生虚空的年日、就是神赐你在日光之下虚空的年日、当同你所爱的妻快活度日。因为那是你一生在日光之下劳碌的事上所得的分。　

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第十五天

　

Love Dare - Day 15　

Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine.　

　

选择一途，超越寻常的自我，来表达对配偶的敬意和尊重。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Pe 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.　

彼得前书3:7 你们作丈夫的、也要按情理和妻子同住，因他比你软弱、与你一同承受生命之恩的、所以要敬重他，这样便叫你们的祷告没有阻碍。　

　

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第十六天

　

Love Dare - Day 16　

Pray for three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse’s life and in your marriage.　

　

祈求上帝改良你配偶生命中和你婚姻生活中的三个方面。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

3Jo 1:2 Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.　

约翰三书1:2 亲爱的兄弟阿、我愿你凡事兴盛、身体健壮、正如你的灵魂兴盛一样。　

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第十七天

　

Love Dare - Day 17　

Determine to guard your mate’s secrets and pray for them.　

　

下定决心，守护你配偶的秘密，并为之祷告。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Pro 17:9 He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.　

箴言17:9 遮掩人过的、寻求人爱，屡次挑错的、离间密友。　

　

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第十八天

　

Love Dare - Day 18　

Prepare a special dinner at home and focus this time on getting to know your spouse better.　

　

在家里为配偶准备一顿特别的晚宴，在共进晚餐的浪漫之际，更深更好地了解你的配偶。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Pro 3:13 Blessed is the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding.　

箴言3:13 得智慧、得聪明的、这人便为有福。　

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第十九天

　

Love Dare - Day 19　

Ask God to show you where you stand with him, and ask for the strength and grace to settle your eternal destination.　

恳求上帝让你明白你和他的关系，向他祈求力量和恩惠，来安置你永恒的家。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

1Jo 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.　

约翰一书4:7 亲爱的弟兄阿、我们应当彼此相爱，因为爱是从神来的，凡有爱心的、都是由神而生、并且认识神。　

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第二十天

　

Love Dare - Day 20　

Dare to take God at his word and trust Jesus Christ for salvation.　

勇于听从上帝的话语，并且相信基督耶稣是救主。　

　

** 相关圣经启示　

Rom 5:6 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly.　

罗马书5:6因我们还软弱的时候、基督就按所定的日期为罪人死。